fix: more reliably validate Podman API version (#2016)

* fix: parse version strings that include dashes

It's possible for some container engines to report their versions with a dash (e.g., "4.9.4-rhel"), which breaks packaging.version.Version's ability to parse the string. This commit introduces a version_from_string method which santizies the version string and returns an instance of Version.

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* cleanup: pacify ruff

* cleanup: further pacify ruff

* fix: properly define _version_from_string method

Also, lift the method up and prefix with a "_" to better match the existing conventions

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* refactor: more robust podman ver check

Use the "podman --version" command instead of "podman version -f {{json .}}" for better reliability across distributions.

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* fix: oci engine version check

Lower Docker API check to 1.41
Podman versions are not PEP440 compliant, remove distro specific suffixes before parsing.
Add tests with real-world outputs and some made up ones.

* fix: UX on OCIEngineTooOldError

* Add FlexibleVersion

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cibuildwheel/errors.py

@@ -61,4 +61,6 @@ class AlreadyBuiltWheelError(FatalError):
 
 
 class OCIEngineTooOldError(FatalError):
-    return_code = 7
+    def __init__(self, message: str) -> None:
+        super().__init__(message)
+        self.return_code = 7