feat: support pypa build (#521)

* feat: support pypa build

fix: update `cibuildwheel.linux.troubleshoot` to know about build

Workaround issue with PyPy venv module by installing build[virtualenv]

fix: test_dependency_constraints_file when using build

fix: test/test_pep518.py

fix: use `strtobool` to parse `CIBW_PYPA_BUILD`

fix: update `cibuildwheel.linux.troubleshoot` to know about `python -m pip wheel`

test: use `build_mode` in `test/test_dependency_versions.py` tests

* refactor: use build-backend instead

* Apply suggestions from code review

Co-authored-by: Joe Rickerby <joerick@mac.com>

* refactor: use literal types for build_frontend

* refactor(tests): build_mode -> build_frontend_env

* Update test/test_before_build.py

Co-authored-by: Joe Rickerby <joerick@mac.com>

cibuildwheel/resources/defaults.toml

@@ -4,6 +4,7 @@ skip = ""
 test-skip = ""
 
 archs = ["auto"]
+build-frontend = "pip"
 dependency-versions = "pinned"
 environment = {}
 build-verbosity = ""