Test enable groups as specified by PR labels (#2357)

* Allow CIBW_ENABLE to control the wheels built in testing

* Set CIBW_ENABLE using PR labels

* Add docs

* Build everything on the main branch

* Add CIBW_ENABLE=all option

This was mostly for use in the `main` building case, because otherwise it's maybe a bit too easy to forget to update this file when adding an enable group

* Remove dead code

* Make unit tests robust to the value of CIBW_ENABLE

* Fix tests that explicitly choose pypy

* Fix test expectation

* Don't expect impossible wheels in expected_wheels

* Simplify logic in expected_wheels

* CircleCI- run with CIBW_ENABLE=all only on the main branch

* Azure pipelines - run with CIBW_ENABLE=all on main branch

* Update gitlab to run CIBW_ENABLE=all on main

* Set CIBW_ENABLE=all on travis - it only runs on main anyway

* Fix job name error on CircleCI

* Fix tests for graalpy

* Update the test configuration to use the label

* Remove duplication of default value. Make it affect sample build too

* Move the action to after deps are installed

* GraalPy workaround for this assumption

* Make unit test resilient to changing CIBW_ENABLE

docs/options.md

@@ -324,7 +324,7 @@ values are:
   are disabled by default as they can't be uploaded to PyPI and a PEP will most likely
   be required before this can happen.
 - `graalpy`: Enable GraalPy.
-
+- `all`: Enable all of the above.
 
 !!! caution
     `cpython-prerelease` is provided for testing purposes only. It is not