Test enable groups as specified by PR labels (#2357)

* Allow CIBW_ENABLE to control the wheels built in testing

* Set CIBW_ENABLE using PR labels

* Add docs

* Build everything on the main branch

* Add CIBW_ENABLE=all option

This was mostly for use in the `main` building case, because otherwise it's maybe a bit too easy to forget to update this file when adding an enable group

* Remove dead code

* Make unit tests robust to the value of CIBW_ENABLE

* Fix tests that explicitly choose pypy

* Fix test expectation

* Don't expect impossible wheels in expected_wheels

* Simplify logic in expected_wheels

* CircleCI- run with CIBW_ENABLE=all only on the main branch

* Azure pipelines - run with CIBW_ENABLE=all on main branch

* Update gitlab to run CIBW_ENABLE=all on main

* Set CIBW_ENABLE=all on travis - it only runs on main anyway

* Fix job name error on CircleCI

* Fix tests for graalpy

* Update the test configuration to use the label

* Remove duplication of default value. Make it affect sample build too

* Move the action to after deps are installed

* GraalPy workaround for this assumption

* Make unit test resilient to changing CIBW_ENABLE

.gitlab-ci.yml

@@ -13,6 +13,10 @@ linux:
     # skip all but the basic tests
     # (comment the below line in a PR to debug a Gitlab-specific issue)
     PYTEST_ADDOPTS: -k "unit_test or test_0_basic" --suppress-no-test-exit-code
+  rules:
+    - if: '$CI_COMMIT_BRANCH == "main"'
+      variables:
+        CIBW_ENABLE: "all"
   script:
     - curl -sSL https://get.docker.com/ | sh
     - docker run --rm --privileged docker.io/tonistiigi/binfmt:latest --install all
@@ -26,6 +30,10 @@ windows:
     PYTEST_ADDOPTS: -k "unit_test or test_0_basic" --suppress-no-test-exit-code
   before_script:
     - choco install python -y --version 3.12.4
+  rules:
+    - if: '$CI_COMMIT_BRANCH == "main"'
+      variables:
+        CIBW_ENABLE: "all"
   script:
     - py -m pip install dependency-groups
     - py -m pip install -e. pytest-custom-exit-code $(py -m dependency_groups test)
@@ -37,6 +45,10 @@ macos:
   image: macos-14-xcode-15
   variables:
     PYTEST_ADDOPTS: -k "unit_test or test_0_basic" --suppress-no-test-exit-code
+  rules:
+    - if: '$CI_COMMIT_BRANCH == "main"'
+      variables:
+        CIBW_ENABLE: "all"
   script:
     - python3 -m pip install dependency-groups
     - python3 -m dependency_groups test | xargs python3 -m pip install -e. pytest-custom-exit-code